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My wife Paula and I have been married for 20 years. Our story beings right after the last child left the nest and Paula just turned This was the second marriage for both of us. We met when we were in our late 30s and have been happily married ever since. I felt like the luckiest guy in the world to land Paula. To describe her I would say she closely resembles a dark-haired Megyn Price from Rules of Engagement.

She is 5"6", lbs, with natural 36DD breasts and an ass that would rival any 18 year old's. Paula is so sexy and does not even know it. I remember not long after we were married we hosted a pool party at our place and she wore what she considered a modest two piece bikini, but it definitely got the attention of all our male friends.

They were constantly asking us to host pool parties after that party. I share this so you can see Paula was very desirable to other men, but was completely faithful to me no matter how many of my friends came on to her. Flash forward a few years. I had some friends offer to help me with a deck project I was working on. It was really hot and the guys had been working really hard.

Paula came out with a pitcher of fresh lemonade for us. It was the weekend and Paula, as usual, dressed in a tight t-shirt without a bra and shorts. As I said earlier, I do not believe she is aware of the effect her body has on guys, especially dressed the way she was. I was so proud of my wife and the attention she was getting from my buddies. After she went back in the house, Bill, one of my best friends said, "Man, Dave, Paula looks super hot today.

I would give my left nut just to be with her if you ever thought about sharing her. What I did not know was that Paula was in the kitchen with the window open and heard our entire conversation.

Later that evening as we ate dinner I could see something was troubling Paula. I asked her what was on her mind and she dismissed it as nothing. As she cleared the table and took the dishes to the kitchen I went into the family room and turned on a ballgame. After she finished the dishes, she snuggled up next to me on the couch. During a commercial she told me that she overheard the guys talking about her.

Paula asked me, "Were you serious about considering sharing me with another man? I told her, "I am the luckiest man in the world to be your husband and you are all I would ever desire. But, it might be hot to see how one of my buddies would react to the chance to be with you if you were willing.

She smiled up at me and kissed me, but I could see a look in her eyes that made me wonder what was going on in that pretty head of hers. A few months later as we lay in bed after some fantastic sex, Paula was cuddled up with me.

She asked me, "Do you have a favorite fantasy that you would like to play out if given the chance? She became very nervous and asked me, "Can I be completely honest, without you getting mad? Paula took a deep breath and nervously shared with me,"I have been thinking about what I had overheard during the deck project and what you had shared with me later that evening.

I just laughed, which made her mad as she thought I was making fun of her. I calmed her down when I explained, "That is the hottest fantasy I could imagine and I would love for us to play that out some time. I do not want to do anything to make you upset or jealous or cause any problems in our marriage. Paula quickly told me, "It cannot be one of our friends as that might too embarrassing later.

She shared with me, "Mary, one of the girls who works with me, told me that she and her husband had invited another man to have sex with her while her husband watched from a closet and she said it was totally wild.

Paula told me she asked Mary if she really thought the other guy could be trusted to be discreet. Her friend told her, "It is a guy who works here with us. Paula told her no, and her friend told her that was exactly her point. The mystery man was discreet. But Paula could not contain her curiosity and pressed Mary to tell her who it was.

Her friend laughed, "Why do you want to know so badly, Paula? Paula was not surprised. Rick is about ten years younger than Paula. He is cocky and always hitting on her telling her what a hot body she has, how he would die a happy man if he could give her an experience she would never forget if she would ever give him the chance. Paula told me she had always dismissed Rick by telling him he was a dope and to quit teasing her. But now, if we were seriously considering living out this mutual wife sharing fantasy, she thought Rick might be just the guy for this.

Paula said, "While I am very satisfied with your cock, I think it might be interesting to experience a guy who is bigger. She told me from what Mary had told her he was somewhere between eight and nine inches long and very thick. Paula asked me, "Would it make you feel threatened or jealous if I fucked a guy with a bigger cock?

I suggested that Paula start to wear sexier tops to work and make a point to innocently be around Rick a little more and let nature take its course during the next week. She did, and it did not take long for Rick to take the bait. Paula told me that by Wednesday he got her away from everyone else one afternoon and whispered in her ear, "You know if you keep showing your tits off to me like this I might not be able to control myself.

When he gathered himself he said, "If you are serious I would love to see your boobs". Paula smiled and told him to meet her in the supply room in five minutes. Luckily no one was in there and she and Rick found a seclude spot where she pulled up her top.

Rick was in shock to see she was bra-less and her natural 36 DDs were on display in all their glory. He told her, "You have the most beautiful tits I have ever seen. Rick said wouldn't that be dangerous there in the supply room, to which she told him.

Rick quickly agreed and it was a go. Paula called me a few minutes later when she got back to her office and told me, "Rick is all excited to finally get to fuck me! She told me, "My panties are wet and I could actually see a large bulge in his pants as we talked about our Saturday rendezvous.

She told me, "I really want to put on a good show for you, honey. I want you to be able to see how good Rick's big cock looks in me. I told her that I planned to go to the local electronics store and purchase some nice camera and microphone equipment that could be hidden from view in our bedroom, but would give me excellent viewing opportunities on a computer in our basement. So our plan was in place. Paula came home mad a few days before her date with Rick.

She told me, "Rick almost blew it as he kept coming up behind me and even put his hands all over my tits telling me how well he planned to fuck me Saturday morning. On Friday night I was looking forward to a wild night when Paula told me that she was hands off until after Rick fucked her all Saturday morning. This just drove me wild which my loving wife enjoyed. She said, "It really makes me hot knowing that you are willing let me enjoy another man and I plan to drive you crazy watching me totally submit to Rick's desires.

The next morning Paula woke up early to prepare for her guest. I was up checking on the connections to the cameras and microphones I had installed while Paula took a bath and shaved both her legs and pussy. She told me that she was not prepared to shave her pussy bald but did want to trim everything down to a nice landing strip which she did.

She used scented bath oil that made her legs feel exceptional smooth. When Paula came out of the bathroom I asked, "What do you plan to wear to greet Rick? I could not wait to see what she would have on. Soon she walked out of bedroom in a long terrycloth robe and told me to close my eyes. I heard the words Ta Da and then I opened my eyes. She literally took my breath away. She was completely nude with the exception of a black lacy garter belt, sheer black hose, and a black pair of stiletto heels.

Her makeup was immaculate and her shoulder length black hair seemed to shimmer in the sunlight. At 45 years old she looked like a true sex goddess. Now I was jealous that I was not going to have her first as I had another raging erection. Paula smiled and said in her sexiest voice, "Think he will want me? Paula told me to go to the basement as her lover would be there soon. I went downstairs and turned everything on as Paula did a visual and sound check from different spots on our bed.

Here was my loving wife who had never been unfaithful to me sitting nervously on our bed ready to be taken by another man. The doorbell rang, she stood up, looked toward one of the cameras and said, "Here goes, I hope you enjoy my show, honey. Paula said he asked if everything was good to go, and she told him yes and hoped he was as she led him to our bed for her first different cock since we had married. The cameras and mics worked like a charm. I could see her drop the robe and I could tell Rick was in another world.

He kept telling Paula,"You are even more beautiful than I ever imagined. He told her it was now time from him to disrobe. I could see the excitement in Paula's eyes. When he was down to his underwear he took her in his arms and kissed her deeply as he cupped his hands around her firm ass cheeks.


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We seek independence and only alienate ourselves…. You are correct that marriage should be a more balanced approach with a higher degree of reason than emotion taken into consideration. But blanket statements based on popular or even unpopular assumptions are easy to make concerning individual humans and human choice. Reality is often more complex than theory! There is a lack of balance in your philosophy despite its valuable points and it really sounds like you have never loved another human being more than yourself and thus cannot comprehend the actual existence of Love.

And maybe you are right…maybe love, joy, good and evil and even God Himself does not exist and we are all just animals making things up in our minds. But what if they do exist? Then you have lived your life and told others to live their lives in a way that cuts out one of the most significant experiences of the human existence: Unfortunately, this western culture nonsense has now spread all over the world, including my hometown Nigeria.

George Clooney is smart for not getting married. Victor, These posts are relentless!!! Here in Australia which is a super multicultural continent almost all the women here are but poisoned by the Westernized ways. Ill never even consider dating a girl here as there becoming more like blokes. Super stuck up demanding rough loud mouths. In time my future wife will be from 1 of these places. Also ill be careful to not have her in this country Australia to be seduced by the materialistic ways and spoiled.

Better i reside in 1 of these fascinating Countries when i decide where and who. Yes, I think if you are going to marry a foreign bird it is best to live in her country. Your best option is to pick a solidly middle class woman. For some reason guys who pick up foreign girlfriends and wives completely overlook everything about her except for her perceived sweetness. Victor I stumbled upon this site by accident. This is for a fuckin man not pussys.

Hey Victor awesome post. I am curious about your views on marrying outside your race? Half breed children often feel lost and alienated like they belong neither here nor there. Imagine people sneering at your children. Why give them such a disadvantage right from the start. You are so wrong. So you cannot tell. Second; girls around 20? Nowadays women are not the same as women back then.

They wanna be invited out to dinner, flowers, opening doors, gifts, etc and at the same time earn more than men and be a boss. Be someone she is attracted to. Take care of yourself very well. Spoken with sincerity and eye-contact there is little else you need.

I agree with what you are saying. I am 52 years old and am fairly muscular and getting leaner all the time. Women like muscular men regardless of age and i agree that women typically do not age well. Glad i found you. A names but to me they were all called Paul. Every single one was a hapless beta who was only delighted to get with an aging women and put up with her existing kids.

No wonder my model of reality was distorted. This gave me a lot of time to think. The land of opportuneties they say and it sounds like a nicer place to live http: I met a local guy here two weeks ago. I have no reason not to believe him. Most the vineyard owners around here would be better off working for minimum wage in a supermarket. Excellent comments, like usual. Hiding some money is a very smart move.

That was an interesting article. I do find myself freer in communist china than in the us. Women going to work to pay other women to watch their children. Agree with everything except for leaving marriage till your 30s. And will an unsettled lifestyle in your 20s, really set you up for being a good husband in your 30s? And how old do men want to be for their children? Personally, I think mids is the ideal time for most men to marry, though I admit that some men will hit their straps and their peak attractiveness to women a little later, perhaps early 30s.

But the game has changed. Marriage is a complete and total raw deal. It takes time to make some dough. In another world I would agree with you, but in this world we have to make the best of a bad situation. Victor great post glad I found you from the In malafide links. I concur with nearly all of it and they key for long term happiness has to do with marrying a woman who aims to please and make you happy as the 1 goal. My wife is the same, foreign mom, American dad — though her mom is Asian.

I, too, like Asian women and could settle-down with one, but agree with much of this post. Kind of a win-lose situation. If you feel so highly about Asian women, are you willing to overlook or ignore your own advice? I have given this considerable thought. Like James said above, it is better for the children to be the same as both parents. Since I do not think anyone should get married unless they want children it is a big issue. Just my 2 cents. I disagree that you must be married to start a family as marriage is a religious institution, family is not.

Marriage is completely unnecessary for starting a family, as if it would negate the fact that a child is the product of combined genetic information. One can start a family, raise his children, and make his woman happy without this silly contract. One of my 5 friends showed me your website a few weeks ago and I have been reading it every since.

This town is defiantly a redneck town and most all the female species are nasty slutty animals. However there is a collage with decent girls and a coffee shop that I frequent almost every day, and I sit and watch people and can tell you what each person does with his or her life every day without ever talking to them. I have been thinking of starting a pressure washing business. My brother is a graphic designer so he would make the business cards and flyers and possibly a website.

I could make indecent living. I want to not be like every other person in Searcy. I want to be able to have a beutiful wife with a few kids living in a house that I want to build it would be a container home be able to have money saved up so we can travel the world and crap.

This post is probably really weird. It will probably be awkward when she comes back. I feel like a teenage girl writing this on here and your probably throwing up reading it. Here is what I would do of I were you: I would start a pressure washing business immediately. I would post flyers everywhere, I would post internet ads and I would go door to door looking for business. I would do this all by myself so I could learn the business inside and out.

A bonus is that you will be working outside, getting sun, getting in shape, staying busy and being productive — not just sitting in a coffee shop creeping people out. When I started to get some good repeat business I would hire someone to come in and do a lot of the work.

I would concentrate on getting more business and hiring more people until eventually I had a full time staff who took care of everything and deposited my checks. When this happened I would leave Searcy and go travelling a little but, open my eyes some.

That would be my goal: Start the biz, hire people, let them do all the work. Think of it as a business, not as self-employment. I would forget about her. After you make some dough there is nothing keeping you in Searcy. Thank you so much, Victor this has given me motivation to go ahead and buy the pressure washer and get started!

The girl is from Seattle… Still think I should forget about her? There are plenty more where she came from whom you can start with on a non creepy level. Any history of, or inclination towards lesbianism. This might seem sexy for a porn infested mind and yeah whatever it could be fun, but not with your wife.

This only shows that she is liberated and hedonistic. Gay friends are out of the question. They tend to be loose with touching each other, showing their pierced nipples, shaved crotches, etc. The woman is physically or verbally aggressive. A bit of hair pulling in bed is fine. I understand your point about the touchy-feely nature you mentioned, and agree, but does having a bi or lesbian friend necessarily mean that you have those tendencies too?

How about you Victor, would you break-away from a girl who you thought was marriage material if you got wave that she has a bi or lesbian friend?

I know people in this situation and when you are close to it, it is hard to advise one way or the other. Is it the duty of a girlfriend to disclose to her boyfriend the sexuality of all her friends?

In Asia, for instance, discussing sexuality is still a tight-lid issue, where one of my aforementioned friends lives and is in a long relationship with a prospective wife who has a bi friend. Women who hang out with gays tend to be promiscuous and potty-mouthed, not good traits for a wife and a mother.

Women who hang out with lesbians tend to be angry and ultra-liberal read: Like I said in the article, those girls are just for fun. The funny thing about a lot of gay men is that they actually promote gender roles; they frown upon bad style, hygiene, being overweight, and slutty habits.

Gay women can be more liberal, fair enough, but a lot of them have great homemaking habits. They often know how to knit, crochet, and do other household crafts. Guess who could use a few tips on cooking? Those fatties feeding their kids frozen pizza or fast food. As far as bisexual girls go — it depends on the woman.

I have a friend who is married to a quiet, sweet woman who is bisexual. She does all of the cooking and cleaning; she dotes on him; she is naturally slender and pretty. She is not promiscuous. He is the alpha; he pays all the bills; they even each other out. You over-generalize far too much to be close to accurate. Your dad paid all your bills, did you fuck him? By your logic, you should have. Furthermore you are the one who is overgeneralizing.

Wow, did you go to college? Do you know anything about data collection and research? In the biz, we call your friends: And we ignore them. Because outliers do not make up the majority.

They are blips on the screen. Do you watch them fuck? It detracts from your vastly educated response. Start reading, and do less talking. I want to add something else that is intolerable in women, and a definite red flag if looking for wife material.

Women who are always updating their Facebook status, texting friends, receiving calls. These women will pop out their cell phones in the middle of a conversation, or at the table, or on your bed.

As a man, your presence is the testament of your greatness. Sharing your presence with a woman is all that your woman should aspire to. If a woman is not satisfied with just being at your side doing what you tell her to do she is not worthy. Just stumbled upon your site. A lot of well written, insightful stuff. I respect your honesty and strength of mind, but this post felt a little cold. You need to be able to have fun together — a marriage will fail a lot quicker through lack of this than it would through a lack of most of the other attributes you discuss.

When I first saw this post I considered it cold. However, it rang true. I am 55 and thinking of finding a young woman to have children with. This post sparked my interest in marriage as I never had children yet for some of the reasons mentioned when I divorced the x knowing then if I go her pregnant I would be an unhappy divorced man as most of my employees of the past. I retired from making money and now I have been having a full time enjoying life with out any issues perusing all my athletic passions including the enjoyment of lots of dating for fun.

Even though I date lots of young woman I have not found the one yet worth of having children with. I wonder where does one draw the line with age as I am wondering about being able to be athletic as now enough years ahead to share healthy activities and worthy adventures with children of my own,being able to show them the world and making sure they will be worthy of my genes for their happiness starting in life with the security I can give them sharing what I have learned and leaving behind what I have created.

However, I disagree with the following: If a woman can keep herself fit at age 30 then she will most likely be fit for many years to come. By age 30 she has passed my beauty test. Marrying a girl at is a recipe for disaster. I think is the best age to get a future wife and she must be very youthful looking and must have a very fit body. Its a good point and maybe just a good idea to look for healthy habits in a woman…sports, eating, gym etc.

Reminds me of a guy and girl I saw at the gym the other day, the guy is in great shape, girl is in natually good shape at 21 with a tiny bit of chub. Fat disaster waiting to happen. Best age for wife material Mature, sexual prime at the best, looks are phenomenal and mature. You make no sense buddy. You over the hill hag piece of trash. Though a small gesture, it means a lot to a girl and shows her that you're not just looking for a quick hookup.

Go to this date expecting to pay. Again, this shows manners, and it lets the girl know that you're not cheap. She'll probably protest out of politeness, but unless she's really sincere, insist. Imagine a job interview. There is a big difference between the person who immediately rolls over on his back and begs for a job and the person who knows they have got as much to offer the company as the company has to offer him.

When you're with a girl, don't act like you're interviewing to be her partner. Imagine instead that you're interviewing her to be your girlfriend. Putting yourself in the power position will not only make you more attractive to the girl, but it will keep you from choosing the wrong girl just because she'll get with you.

After the date, don't text or call right away. Some people set a general rule of waiting for 48 hours before calling a girl back. You don't have to give yourself a set time limit, but you do need to avoid looking desperate. Don't call or text her right after the date—give it at least another night.

Be the one to end the conversation. Whether you're texting or calling, when you feel like the conversation is drawing to a close, make sure you're the one to end it. This will make you seem busier and will always leave her wanting more.

It's actually showing that you're interested and serious and not looking to play games. Be laid back and relaxed about it. If she sees you're serious about her, she'll take initiative that will surprise her. If she doesn't, she's not that into you. Wait a few minutes to reply to texts. Replying the instant she texts you will make it look like you're just sitting around waiting to hear from her.

Wait 5 to 20 minutes before replying to most texts. Note that you shouldn't wait too long, or the conversation may get lost. Initiate the second date. If you still feel a good vibe a week or so after the first date, consider asking her out again.

Consider making it slightly more romantic than the first—go out to dinner rather than coffee or hang out just the two of you instead of with a group of friends. If the mood is right and you haven't already, take this opportunity to give her a kiss goodnight. If ever your faces are three inches apart, and you're both staring at each other, it may be a good time to kiss her.

Move in slowly to give her time to react, or push you away if she feels uncomfortable. Look for the signs that she wants a kiss. If this is your first kiss with the girl, leave it at that, even if she invites you in. Just reply "Not tonight, but next time! Each relationship evolves differently. Sometimes, you'll have to initiate all of the dates until the two of you are officially a couple. If the former, do your best to read her signals while you're together, as well as the ones over text to gauge if she's uninterested or if she's just shy.

Gauge signals in person. If she responds well to your flirting , laughs at your jokes, and seems comfortable around you, she's probably interested.

On the other hand, if she sits away from you with her arms crossed or if she refuses to look you in the eye, she's probably not. Try grabbing her hand when you're walking or putting your hand just above her knee during a movie or during dinner. If she pulls away or seems uncomfortable, she probably hasn't warmed up to you just yet. Gauge signals over text. If you feel like you're always stretching to keep a text conversation going or she always replies with short answers such as "great.

She likely knows these answers don't lend their way to a meaningful conversation, and is just trying to be polite by responding without giving you the wrong idea. However, in person signals are always easier to rely on. If you're getting mixed signals, go with the in-person ones over the signals you get over text. In a dire situation, talk to mutual friends to help you better understand her behavior. Ask her to be your girlfriend. Once you are pretty sure that there's strong mutual attraction, ask her to be your girlfriend.

You can do this in a big, creative way or simply ask her in person. Be sure to never ask this over text or chat even just over the phone is questionable. Don't change your Facebook relationship status or refer to her as your girlfriend until she responds! Life doesn't normally work on the schedule you envision. Your future girlfriend might cross your path tomorrow or two years from now. A healthy relationship will color your world no matter how old you are, so don't rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the girlfriend role, which will cause pain for everyone involved.

A girl rejected me but later gave me an amazing smile. What does that mean? Just because she rejected you doesn't mean she doesn't like you as a person. Don't be in a hurry to ask her out again until something's changed in your lives. Not Helpful Helpful That's rough, but don't do anything dramatic on an impulse.

Think about what's best for her, not just yourself. If you decide to make a move, just let her know you're interested and leave the decision to her. How do I properly confess to her?

Should it be done in private or an open place? Just smile, be friendly, and let her know you'd like to go on a date. Overthinking it will make you more nervous. Pick a public place if the girl doesn't know you well, but ask in a private conversation. There is this girl I like but I don't know if she is single. What should I do? Asking "Are you single? Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. By using this service, some information may be shared with YouTube.

Did this summary help you? Tips One of the best ways to find out how you can get a girlfriend is to discover why you don't have one right now! Take a look inside yourself and see what things you can improve and what things you are doing well already. Do not be nice just to the girl you like, but to every girl. Do not rush it.

It may take weeks, or even months, for a girl to decide if she likes you. Have your own life. Girls don't like people who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons—either they are insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for dominating people.

When a woman is monogamous and in a good sexual relationship her sensual and loving body language responses will be triggered by her steady partner. This means that - although she might look busy or even grumpy in 'resting' mode her facial expressions will soften when she sees her steady mate and her body shape will change and become more fluid because she is likely to stand taller and arch her back slightly and relax her mouth, making her lips look wider.

If she's cheating this look might well become her 'resting' look though, as her sensual signals increase as she becomes more aware of her sexual side and ability to attract. This can look a bit like preening with increased eye-checks in the mirror and a softened, smiling expression when she moves around generally.

This display will then disappear rather than increase as usual when her regular partner makes a move to respond though, leading to signals like a facial clamp with the lips narrowed and self-diminishing gestures that can involve covering the breasts or crossing the legs. Lying or deceiving is a very complex process for the body to perform as you have to register the truth then suppress it before manufacturing the 'lie' performance and story.

If you throw high levels of guilt into this mix you can create a strong stress response that can be difficult to mask. One of the biggest poker 'tells' is the stress response. Stress can affect the breathing, meaning a regular partner will be able to hear the shallow, more rapid breathing even over the phone, plus you might see an increased blink rate and an increase in self-comfort, anxiety rituals like fiddling with jewellery, foot-tapping, nail-picking or chewing etc.

Women will often be aware how complex deceptive lying is and attempt to create masks or barriers if they're being challenged.

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