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What would make a good looking Asian gay man attractive enough for a white gay man? That depends upon what it is that you are actually looking for. Are you looking for someone who only puts check marks next to boxes along side their position on a list?

Many people would tell you the list is to confining. That all they do is put limits on people by putting them into smaller and smaller boxes and therefore limiting your options upon who is acceptable to your standards while casting everyone else out. Take everything that you desire and make a list. Then on the same paper make another list of everything you have to offer someone else.

When you are done and can't think of anymore then place the list in a box. Place the box where you will see it everyday until you are bored by it and forget it's there…. I think you got the just of this thought experiment. But If it bothers you and haunts you then just let it sit there and never, ever, ever touch it until it drives you insane.

When you become completely obsessed over the existence of the list and what is on it, and what you want to change, and everything you forgot to elaborate more upon on both sides…. Never sooner, or later. Only 8 months later after calling the doctor and scheduling an appointment for being on the verge of insanity. This box sucks too. You waited 8 months to just realize you wasted all that time being frustrated only to be pissed?

You will also notice your list will have changed and other things you wish for will show up. These things will more valuable to you than a short and broad list of generalizations that you hid away in a box only because some idiot you don't even know told you too. There will smaller boxes that are much cozier that come from a longer list that no one will ever be able to conquer alone.

Making vague generalizations, and relying solely on superficiality is unfortunately an epidemic for gay man amongst one another. Yet we thrive outside of it for being creative, industrious, and unique to the rest of the world. I used to think I wanted everything given to me in a cute, nicely wrapped box.

However, the longer I worried about that box without touching it the more frustrated I became. I finally took the time to actually look at my list and I realized that boxes and list are confining and also liberating.

I hate them because everything I really desire is most likely going to be found outside of it but I have to be able to see the list to actually change it. I laugh really hard at myself a whole lot when I'm alone because I am an idiot. If you think I'm nuts…. It's nice knowing I don't have to be perfect because no one else is. I love engaging in a witty, frivolous conversation that turns into a pointless debate because I love being proven wrong.

It's sexy to me…. Guess what else I learned? Turns out Guys love that! I have dated Asian men in the past, so I think I can add a few things that are spoilers, deal breakers for me. Play time was a! But the problems come up when eating. Asian cuisine just isn't very good. Fish eyeballs and beef skin in soup just are not my idea of good eats, no matter how much rice you put with it. Then there's the body odor that comes with some food.

I can tell every time when someone has been eating sriracha sauce. The smell is temporary, but some of the turn-off isn't. But the biggest thing by far is the inability on the part of many Asians to eat with their mouths closed.

As I sit across the table listening to the loud smacks and slurps, I know the relationship is doomed. There is no way I can have this person over for dinner with my parents. They will never eat without making a disgusting spectacle of themselves. So it really all comes down to the food and table manners. Otherwise, there's nothing un-hot about an Asian man in general. I can go for the chubby ones, the fit ones, the dorky ones, preppy ones, even the ones who are bad at math, if only they are compatible diners.

I am a WGM. I find many Asian men attractive and have dated some. Most of my experience was in the 80s and 90s, so things may have changed. What I found was that:. Some Asian men distrust WGMs who find them attractive, expecting that they will be treated like some exotic creature rather than an equal.

I felt I had to constantly justify my attraction - both to them and their friends. I met a preponderance of Asian men who got very attached and very clingy very quickly. But it seemed to me that all I had to do was be kind and civil and these men were ready to pick drapes and plan a future together. Each time that scared me away. If this gives some useful info to the OP or anyone else, you are welcome to it. People prefer to date with people who are the same race. As a Mongolian who grow up in China, I can feel even there are so many history problems between Chinese and Japanese, they still believe they are the same race, both East Asian and share common value.

Chinese and Japanese are still very close in many ways. There was not much history problem between China and England. But it's very hard for Chinese and English to communicate with each other, for they are from different culture and have different value of scene.

I believe this is the race gap. The thing we should know is: White gay only like white gay, Asian gay only like Asian gay, this is not the discrimination, it's just the personal preference. And race gap do play significant role. If you want to find different race, you should start learn their culture first.

But do not change yourself. Sorry for the grammar mistake and typo. I'm gonna share something that really work. First, try to be fit. Go to the gym or do morning jog. Second, love yourself and others. Meaning discover and nurture who you really are and respect others who are doing the same, try to be the least judgemental person on earth. Third, right place right time. Try not to be desperate slut and act appropriately.

Not too confident and know it all yet not too timid and silent. Its like art, there has to be balance. Once you tried your best to accomplish all these things I dont see any reason for you not to get a white guys attention.

Except if youre really really ugly then you have to put a little bit more effort. For me, the same things that would make any guy attractive: That he too takes care of himself, has goals and makes them happen, that he has a nice personality, is easy to talk to…. So I think that is a better question, or at least one equally worth posing: Because not every guy white or otherwise is going to be the right one for you. You deserve to have the right one, not just any old white guy.

I know this isn't politically correct but as a person of color and a racial activist it really irks me when I see Asian guys clamoring for white guys. Most white guys don't even like Asians to date. This is why you see most commonly see "no blacks no Asians" on white guys' profiles but sure doesn't stop them from clamoring for them. He was telling me how this white guy would go out with him and then ignore him every time he thought he got something better and then when it didn't work out go back to him again and he would keep taking him back over and over.

He also told me how he treated his ex asian boyfriend like crap because he wanted him to end the relationship but the guy just wouldn't get the message and stuck around for 2 years! I understand how the preference for light skin predates European arrival to asia but still guys have some dignity! I presume you mean "young whte gay man? The European-Australian, though, is usually middle-aged. Maybe it's only an aspect of Australian gay life, but there's a lot of older gay European men attracted to men of Asian descent.

You should have no problem. I see people getting offended over there. Being Asian should already put you ahead of the game. Great skin, beautiful eyes and well mannered, not to mention the fact that gay culture tend to favour a boyish sort of look which is more common in Asia, at least to the western eye.

For me, the same qualities as any other race.

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It surely impacted me. Kim has both gay and straight Asian male friends who have expressed their struggles with casual dating, as well as Asian male clients who have come to him perplexed by their inability to form a more diverse dating pool. One of her clients surprised her by wondering whether there was a way to work on his habit of only dating Asian women.

Through multiple talks, Leadingham discovered that the year-old had endured a scarring moment in the fifth grade, when he asked a white friend whether he should ask a crush to the school dance. I had no aspirations of being a fratty white dudebro, nor did I feel any latent shame for being Korean.

I did, however, think more deeply about how my racial identity set me apart, and why I hardly ever saw faces like mine kissing, well, blonde sorority girls. The engagement of blonde Twitch streamer Lisa Vannatta, aka STPeach, to her Korean boyfriend Jay earlier this year inspired both admiration and racist flak typical comment: As if that would somehow reflect my self-worth better.

One of the most common questions posed online is how an Asian man can overcome discrimination in dating, which is something that Ralph, aka SquatsandRice on Reddit, has discussed at length. They try to be the American dream, i. Every person I interviewed believes that increasing media representation, especially portrayals of Asian men as romantic leads, is a major piece of the puzzle.

Meanwhile, therapist Jin Kim adds that simply talking about the pressures of Asian men in the dating pool is an important tool: I want these conversations so my clients can be conscious and guide the next steps after that realization, including digging into any shame about their cultural background.

My mom assumed the position of financial and familial authority, and my dad supported that dynamic entirely, taking on the role of raising my sister and me at home. This dynamic translated into my views of masculinity and feminism, and ultimately, my dating preferences. I value my independence, financial and otherwise, and have always been drawn to men who find my independence to be empowering, not emasculating.

Needless to say, they were immediately disappointed. Do you date Asians exclusively or have you had experiences with interracial dating? Fortunately, instead of minimizing my concerns, my current boyfriend a white male listens to my grievances and makes a conscious effort to advance the cause of racial and gender equality.

I think the pecking order is something along the lines of: How do your sexual orientation and gender identity affect your dating life as an Asian-American? Growing up in an extremely religious Korean household, almost everything was forbidden. Unless they were white; oddly, my mom thought that was more palatable because she was fed this idea that white equals success.

When I was 12, I remember being attracted to women. Korean culture puts a heavy emphasis on social status and image. These interviews have been edited for clarity and length. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. What do your parents want for you in a partner?

What have your experiences with interracial dating been like? She identifies as lesbian and lives in Portland, Oregon. How did your parents respond to you being a lesbian? How would you describe your experiences with interracial dating?

Courtesy of Vicky N. Specifically, it was usually Older Millennial women who were just now telling their stories. So maybe after decades of denigration, Asian guys are feeling a little love. But is there more to it than just media representation? I have a theory about my cohort of Older Millennials who came of age in the first decade of the millennium, and it goes something like this: Sure, Yellow Fever and Orientalism have existed for some time, but with us, Asian girls became fully mainstream.

Non-Asian Older Millennial males were raised on Nintendo and anime, whereas the female weeb was still super-rare. Do you remember any Asian male characters from the books? By the time Millennial guys and acceptance-starved Asian girls could socialize without constraint i. The Final Club scene from The Social Network is a great portrayal of this dynamic, where eager-to-assimilate Asian American girls are ecstatic to be included in an elite social scene and awkward young white male gatekeepers are just ecstatic to have girls, period.

Meanwhile, acceptance-starved Asian guys were kept on the sidelines, either clinging to the post-racial dream or humiliated into silence. If you grew up in this environment, especially as a non-Asian woman, what kind of social hierarchy would you be familiar with?

Consequently, the Older Millennial female-centered narrative would be more inclusive towards Asian men, especially to signal progressive bona fides, than towards Asian women, who would be seen as established and even superior competition. After all, on Broadway, one of the Mean Girls is now Asian. Yes, the show did not venture far from its privileged white female perspective, but that was the whole point.

And the show rarely idealized its main characters: Hannah protagonist and narcissistic aspiring writer , Marnie annoyingly pretty girl with vague creative ambitions , Jessa sociopathic boho-chick , and Shoshanna pop culture-obsessed success-monger.

Nor do the men around them get off lightly. So how does Asianness figure into Girls World? First, Asian men appear mostly as love interests.

When Shoshanna is transferred to Japan for work in season five, she falls for her hip and handsome boss, Yoshi.

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